If only our prayers would be answered that easily.
I agree with you 100%. The last thing I want is to marry the wrong guy who is not part of God's plan and be miserable. When I think of the guys I could have married in the past.....I thank God everyday that he opened my eyes.
Like you said, it's not easy, but doable. In addition, I feel it's our own responsibility to enjoy our lives and fulfill our own dreams. Although I would prefer to chase my dreams with a good man at my side, it's not a spouses responsibility to make me (us all) happy. Those are fairy tale fantasies.