I want to know why we cannot see if the message we send was at least read. I feel this would eliminate the "OMG did she/he read it and not attracted or interested" feeling that we get. You know I am right. We all feel that way at one point.
Why can't we know when was the last time someone has logged into the site. Would someone write a caring and real message to someone that has not logged on in months. I know that I have written many messages and wonder did she/he read them, when is the last time they logged in and that is why they have not read my message.
I feel if features like this might attact more members.
What do you think?
My personal advice is to chill out and have a 'not bothered mentality' when messaging or awaiting a message as I reckon all messages are likely read, except from a trial account.
Good luck with your search