(quote) Dawn-58330 said: the best version of me is at an Indy Gathering (the rest is not far off!) Come find out! Our Christmas Party is Dec 14 (see the Events Page or email me.)
VERY nice plug for our Christmas party, Dawn! We're definitely our most extroverted 'selves' at our parties - we're a whole bunch of fun!!!
Everyone should consider this a official nudge to come to Indy. Check the event page for details, and don't hesitate to get in touch with any of the Indy crew that you see posting on here with any questions.
I'm pretty much the same on FB as here too. I probably tell more warped jokes there based on actual experiences though - ones my family and high school pals will understand too. BUT - I'm not looking to date any of my FB friends either - they are actual friends IRL or ones I've indirectly gotten to know via other CM pals.
It surprises me how so many people on ANY social site (including CM) will post pity party/ whiny comments, or remarks using a sharp-edged 'humor' but directed at actual victims (got news for you, folks, that's NOT humorous - its bullying), passive aggressive comments, or bashing while generalizing broad groups of people (men, women, non 7/7's, etc) posts. Why would anyone want that to be the impression they give of themselves, especially on a dating site?
(I'm not counting politics - that's always going to be an emotional minefield no matter where you post.)