So, there you go, Genie. On your next date, ask the fellow, "Was God wise in making you? How" And while he's thinking about it, you can have soup, main course, dessert and coffee.
My ? for my date, "Are you up to the challenge for God's wisdom to be with me?" Then I will take up with your suggestion, having my soup, main course, dessert and tea while he's thinking to the task giving him as it will not be an easy one.