What would your reaction be if, in the middle of this instant connection, the person slapped you in the face or puked all over you?
I apologize if you think this an example of a great guy - this happens to not represent mine. If this is the norm you will no longer see me on the forums.
Possibly this is why people are actively complaining about the lack of quality of the forums.
Too bad more people haven't experienced it, or won't recognize it.
And of course there was hard work and effort put into the marriage ~ that is life. Just because you have love at first sight doesn't make it a fantasy life of no work, that's just ignorance.
It was year 2003 when i met my first love through renewal experience in our parish.... not sure if it's love at first sight, but the moment i saw him.... i feel uncomfortable, cannot even look on his eyes.... unexplained feeling. Then after five years we've met again... Maybe first love never dies...