Faithfulness and trust in God is hard, though I think that becuase of constant working at it I've gotten better at trust with age. Don't forget to pray...and just talk to people. It isn't that serious. So what if they don't respond! just keep going. I used to make it a rule to go through at least 10 profiles a night...and to take the interview or send an emote for everyone that I found interesting. Try it out!
Or Maine, where there are few practicing Catholics, and most male CMers seem to be a) divorced without an annulment and b) non-paying members.
Sometimes we do have to raise our sights a bit and look farther down the road.