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Discussion related to living as a Catholic in the single state of life. As long as a topic is being discussed from the perspective of a single Catholic then it will be on-topic.

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Jan 4th 2014 new

Not fantasies but actual remarks directed towards me that I much appreciate and view as splendid compliments.

"You and I would get along famously"--- "You still are a great catch"--- "You are a fascinating man"

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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Gerald-947210 said: Another great first line would be, "I see from your forum posts, you realize multiple kinds of beings have have relationships, consciousness, and acknowledge they have central nervous systems, and those beings (animals) manifest God's glory as His Creations. That is quite insightful for a man, and I wish more of your male colleagues shared your views." That would be a stunning but welcomed first liner!

Gerald
Yes, Jerry, I'd be thrilled to get that one, too.
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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Margaret-20183 said: I'm not really into fantasies. God has proven to me time and time again that what is best for me is NOT what I may have fantasized or wished for. For all of the truly exceptional men God has put in front of me, I am able to list many areas where those gents did not fit into any ideal I may have had in mind. I can't thank God enough for that!
But by virtue of you being on this site and active in the forums, Margaret, you have unrealized dreams. And is that much different than an unfulfilled fantasy?
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Jan 4th 2014 new
Hello beautiful lady, would you like to escort me to mass and then a fabulous evening on the town laughing laughing OK, a girl has to have a dream;)
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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Carol-1007500 said:

Men admit to fantasies, too, John. (Well, maybe not Michael (see first page of this thread); he only was willing to share an embarrassed emoticon.

Why not give the ladies some insight into the type of opening line a man would love receiving in a message?

And don't men want to hear the ladies' thoughts on this to help inform their reaching out and and getting responses? Jim can get away with using humor, but I don't think invoking sports is generally the most effective line with the ladies (especially if one uses baseball metaphors.)



....I'm glad people are having a good time with this thread. I do find it entertaining.

It's not practical though because as Margaret indicated, it is about whether a woman is into me, and not whether she is into the words I type in a message. And if a woman sent me a message, it would be whether I'm into her.

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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Michael-308675 said:

....I'm glad people are having a good time with this thread. I do find it entertaining.

It's not practical though because as Margaret indicated, it is about whether a woman is into me, and not whether she is into the words I type in a message. And if a woman sent me a message, it would be whether I'm into her.

With all due respect, Michael, Esquire, I think you are being far too academic. And I disagree with your claim that the contents contained herewithin have no practical application.

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Jan 4th 2014 new
Ok, truth in lending, I have sent a similar line :) also not many men responses here because "most" women don't send first e-mails. They may check a profile then wait for the guy to make the first contact.
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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Carol-1007500 said:

With all due respect, Michael, Esquire, I think you are being far too academic. And I disagree with your claim that the contents contained herewithin have no practical application.

With all due respect, Carol, OP, I disagree with you but will refrain from commenting further.
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Jan 4th 2014 new
Whoops, my last post was in reference to Cathy's line :)
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Jan 4th 2014 new
(quote) Cindy-534370 said: yes, a 1st message, right here on CM.
Well I'm sure that caught your attention! What happened next?
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