Perhaps you could do that anyway -- sort of like a treasure hunt but with facts about your secret valentine or valentines -- perhaps who could collect the most interesting tidbits from the most members - of the opposite sex of course - could win? And, they would have to be things not readily found on their profiles.
"Pinkies were brainstorming ideas. Now Admin would like input from the Man Cave crowd: what sort of game or gimmick could be promoted site-wide so that all members, forumites and non-, would be encouraged to browse more profiles than they are now, with the hopes that while playing the game, they would 'meet' new people and increase their chances of finding a match on CM? A number of ideas were posted in the Pinkie Room and are being considered by Admin, but they wanted to hear from the men. Actual prizes will be awarded!"
Any other gentlemen have ideas to contribute? Please post!