(quote) Patrick-341178 said: I really don't understand how making it optional would help the situation. You can kinda tell anyways by someone's photo and nevertheless, it is something that eventually i you would find out about. I have posted topics on this situation before. Older men seem interested in younger women due to the whole biological clock thing, but in turn, many younger women seem totally freaked out about the idea of dating a man more than 5 years or so older. It is what it is. Complain all you want.... not gonna change.
But Patrick, not everyone even has a picture, so you would have to comb through their profile looking for clues. My search age range is 10 years older than me and 5 years younger, so I think that's pretty broad. I might even consider men a little outside this range. But I don't want any mystery ages.