CM is going carefree mingling. Thanks for asking. No really, I see it as a success. I have gotten closer to Jesus, read some great forum posts, brought out more of myself in my profile, yet not compromise my integrity, and avoided some women too>
For the integrity concept I was thinking about paying a photographer a few hundred bucks to follow me around for a month taking pictures of me doing cool things..I am not a picture fella for some reason. About avoiding..I have a rule to not pursue a woman in a convenient manner such as a young adult group. Well, after meeting some in such groups in my area I was not interested them anyway before coming to CM, then she will come to this site. You know I might not be her type or be 10 years older, but that does not mean I do not know men that can be her type. Just like that Bob Seger song...until you know a man you don't know who he knows....
Or I will meet a single woman and not like her manners, then when I came to this service I noticed she used to have an account here long ago. I would have had sent her a message just on her profile, but nope not now. So the lessons I learned are to show yourself, get into deep conversations early such as no nudity bars or strippers for a bachelor party, and see what happens. Well, about the bars...there was a young man getting married. I asked him in front of some single women about his bachelor plans. I feel the women appreciated my topic of having a proper party....I came up with a dialouge with a future fiancee in front of the women in her family about promising a proper party...and then asking her for the same. Priceless.
In any case, I might organize a meet-up with numbero uno off limits. I like getting others to meet...it thins the herd and competition :)
God Bless. If I did not make anyone mad, then I wasted my time. :)