Also, allow the witness of Jesus and Mary to tell you something about the ultimate value of sexual activity:
Were Jesus and Mary fully human like us? Yes
Were Jesus and Mary fulfilled in their humanity? Yes
Were Jesus and Mary virgins? Yes
Did they ever engage in ANY willed sexual activity? No(This is a reasonable assertion given that Jesus was never Married and Mary was ever virgin. The Church teaches that masturbation is a sin and so Jesus and Mary would not have done this either.).
Embrace the reality that willed sexual activity is not necessary for human fulfillment. I am not saying that it is a bad thing but ,rather, according to the witness of Christ and His mother, it is not only not the best of human experience, it is not even necessary for human fulfilment. Our sexual desires, at times, may be the most prevalent and strongest of our passions but that does not mean that sexual activity is the best thing or even a necessary thing. Remember, there is concupiscence. Our passions can be disordered. A drug addict, for example, may observe that the strongest, most prevalent passion within them is for using cocaine but it is reasonable, in the light of Revelation, to say that it(using cocaine) is not only not the best thing, but it is not even a necessary thing. Let's let Revelation and reason, and not our passions, be our default/primary guide to making decisions.