(quote) Donna-83441 said: I agree completely.. What positive effect is gained by getting rejection after rejection?.. I can honestly say from my own experience that when the right person comes along everything will work like clockwork. 22 years single and 8 1/2 years seeking on CM brought me the perfect man for me. 11 mos today since we made it official. You cannot force God's timeline.
Best thing is to make contact, then wait.. If they write you back then you have reason to be happy.. If they don't write back, leave them alone.. They are not the one for you.
Good tips Donna & congrats on your 1st 11 months! May the Lord bless you with many more years of a good marriage.