Do I want a certain person because she’s wonderful, or is she wonderful because I want her? Is that certain someone the sweet invention of a dream or is she really as wonderful as she seems?
As singles we have many things pressuring us to make a decision on The One. Family members want us married off. Friends, if they are in a relationship, want the same for us. Society, and even some aspects of the church, say you are normal if someone else is willing to be with you.
We don’t like to be lonely either. We have all these stressors that try to make us choose. But in the end, we must first be happy with the life that God has given us in our single lives and then see where His grace leads us in our journey of life.
Also, remember we are never alone, because Christ is always with us. Always remember not to live your life by the expectation of others, but by the one who created you.