Christ suffered more than you will ever know. He was the true, innocent victim, convicted and punished unjustly. But He suffered out of His love for us. If there is anyone who can understand our anger and our outrage at what has happened to us, it is Christ.
Not only did He suffer every injustice as a completely innocent and loving human being, but he knows all that you have been through better than anyone. He knows the pain, the frustration, the insanity.
When you pray, go to meet Him in the garden and kneel down with Him at the rock, and talk to Him about your situation. Unite your pain to His and embrace your cross with His help.
Then he said to them all: “If anyone would come after me, he would deny himself and take up his dross daily and follow me.” Luke 9:23