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Betty was looking for hope. The 23-year-old single mother escaped an abusive relationship, but had her doubts about finding a spouse on CatholicMatch.

“I hadn’t been married, so I truly believed they [CatholicMatch members] would look down on me for being a single mother.”

Betty’s attitude changed when she got a message from Matthew.

Matthew, a 29-year-old from North Dakota, told Betty that he had been hurt in the past too and was happy to know there were still good women out there.

When Betty realized that Matthew lived 1500 miles away she assumed they would just be friends, but was touched by his thoughtful messages.

After corresponding regularly with Betty for a while, Matthew decided to take a chance. He suggested to Betty that if neither person started dating anyone locally by the summer of 2013, they should meet.

Betty had the courage to suggest meeting sooner.

When Betty told her family that she was going to meet Matthew in person, her Dad was reluctant. He suggested to Betty that she get a group of friends together when it was time to meet him.

After close to a year of long-distance correspondence, Matthew got a thumbs-up from Betty.

But Matthew wasn’t discouraged.

“He asked me if I would just meet him in front of the police station with my father so he could give me some flowers.”

That creative response motivated Betty to get a group of friends together so they could meet.

Matthew, and his friend Michael, rode their motorcycles to visit Betty.

When Matthew and Betty finally met, they were able to share their Catholic values: “I called Michael (Matthew’s friend) our guardian angel since he was there for Matthew,” she said.

They had a great first meeting and after Sunday Mass, Matthew kissed Betty on the hand and got on his motorcycle to return home.

The next morning Betty realized how much she missed Matthew. “I started crying and my body hurt,” she admitted. “I was so frustrated I wasn’t going to see him again.”

Matthew texted Betty inviting her to North Dakota because he wanted her know he was there, not just for her, but for her daughter as well.

A week later Betty was on a plane to North Dakota.

The journey is just starting for Matthew and Betty. Long distance relationships are tough, but they stay in touch by calling and texting. They hope to get Skype, so they can video chat and they are planning future visits.

Betty’s daughter is excited for her own chance to meet Matthew.

“He is flying over to meet my parents,” Betty told CatholicMatch.

“We have put our trust in God’s hands because we know everything happens for a reason. There is a reason why we have met and why we are together. We are taking it a day at a time.”

 

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11 Comments

  1. Veronica-56352 October 3, 2012

    Very uplifting story! Long distance does work if two people are committed! All the best to both of you. Trusting in Jesus, Veronica

  2. Betty-590076 October 3, 2012

    Matthew flies in tomorrow afternoon. It has been a long month of patience and praying. Praying the rosary in the evening together has been helpful

  3. Elizabeth-753085 October 3, 2012

    God bless you both! stay blessed inyour hope, faith and love!

  4. Lesley-158563 October 3, 2012

    Proofread! Proofread! Often these stories are filled with typos. Your readers deserve better than that.

    • Vanessa-446030 October 4, 2012

      Yes proofread!! What’s going on here? Who’s in charge of this site?

  5. Anthony-904401 October 3, 2012

    nice story,hopefully i could end up this way with my soul mate God sent

  6. Mercy-794463 October 4, 2012

    Congratulations to you, Matthew and Betty!
    A Great story! Very inspiring!
    May God bless you both!

  7. Daniel-634934 October 4, 2012

    I still believe in true love. I am so happy for both of them :)

  8. Heidi-843177 October 6, 2012

    This is very inspiring story…long distance relationships may be difficult in some respects, but the rewards are wonderful. Congratulation to Matthew and Betty!

    • Vaughn-909939 October 29, 2012

      I have found a way to contact you :) You have a wonderful family I see,, as well as I do also .

      If you are on Facebook I am on there Vaughn Walen username: Vaughnvhalen …Hope you get this. Sincerely, Vaughn

  9. Vaughn-909939 October 23, 2012

    ” Grazie amore per sapermi amare” :)

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