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Esther was a skeptic of online dating, and she was determined enough in her conviction to join CatholicMatch to prove it. “I finally decided one night to give it a quick try,” she recalled. “Basically to prove to myself that it was not a good idea.”

The 32-year-old from Washington state might have had doubts about this venue, but she was also open, and prayed that if it was God’s will to find her spouse in this way that it be shown to her. She got a couple of messages, but nothing that looked to be long-lasting.

Jacob & Esther's 200 pieces of online correspondence focused heavily on faith and family.

Jacob & Esther’s 200 pieces of online correspondence focused heavily on faith and family.

Then Jacob sent her a “wink” emotigram. She went to his profile and was favorably impressed. Esther was looking for someone who answered all seven faith questions affirmatively. Jacob did all that and more—he called his faith his “greatest treasure” and said he would trade all material possessions if necessary to keep it.

Jacob’s profile further told seekers that he was the self-employed director of a Catholic bookshop, and a founding member of a local organization aimed at promoting the Catholic faith.

Esther sent a return note to the 38-year-old from Australia, but figured nothing would come of it, because of the distance separating them. One return note became another, and pretty soon Jacob and Esther had about two hundred messages between them, most of it focusing on how they felt about faith and family.

The connection between them was strong enough to keep Esther awake at night—she would find herself waking up about the same time Jacob was sending her a message, and their correspondence revealed how they prayed the Rosary for each other at the same time each day. This prayer wasn’t something that was planned in advance.

Esther hoped things could work out for her to meet Jacob face-to-face, but how was this going to happen? She prayed to St. Joseph, and one hour later there was a message from Jacob asking her what she thought of the idea of him coming to the United States.

“I was in complete shock over how my prayers had been answered and couldn’t believe it was true,” Esther recalled. Appropriately, it was the Feast of the Annunciation when he appeared on American soil. To Esther, it all seemed too good to be true.

“After I dropped him at the house where he was staying, I went home and knelt down in front of my statues of Jesus and Mary and placed myself and Jacob in their care,” Esther said. “I could hardly sleep because of all the excitement.”

After a deeply spiritual Holy Week together, Jacob proposed to Esther.

After a deeply spiritual Holy Week together, Jacob proposed to Esther.

Jacob’s time with Esther in America was a profoundly spiritual one. It was Holy Week and they attended all the Masses together. The prayed together and watched sunsets together. She saw how Jacob was honorable, yet humble. “He increased my faith, hope and love for God and inspired me to holiness,” Esther said.

Throughout their time together, Esther was praying to St. Joseph, and she felt herself growing in love for Jacob. She asked that the hand of God guide her to know if this was the man she was supposed to marry. And if so, if He might prompt Jacob to do something about it.

It was the Saturday before Divine Mercy Sunday, and Jacob and Esther took a little trip to Orcas Island, and went to the top of Mount Constitution. As they gazed out on the view, Esther turned to see that Jacob was on one knee asking for her hand in marriage.

“I have never had such immense joy,” Esther said. “In fact, I was pretty much rendered speechless.” But she did get out the most important word:”Yes.”

At the end of October, Jacob and Esther were married and are beginning their lives together in Australia. They both trusted God every step of the way en route to a new life.

 

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12 Comments

  1. Mercy-794463 December 4, 2013

    Such a Beautiful and Inspiring story … May God bless you both!! :)

  2. Sol-496426 December 5, 2013

    What a beautiful story! May God Bless your lives together abundantly!

  3. Kathy-730470 December 5, 2013

    Your story is a beautiful one…..Praying the rosary for each other at the same time…..wonderful. God bless you both :)

  4. Rowena-409153 December 5, 2013

    Very inspiring love story… Congratulations!

  5. Lynette-852719 December 5, 2013

    What a beautiful story. Its a Catholic romance story.

  6. Sal-1020959 December 5, 2013

    Beautiful,what the hand of God can do.

  7. Cosmo-1037468 December 7, 2013

    Greetings ( Management)
    I finally got started. First I need your help. Am I a member of any other “Dateing Servvice?” This one Catholic Match I got today. Do I have another membership in another Catholic Dateing service? I really appreceite the help. I hate to think I been paying membership for a noumber of years and never used the service. any way you can help me. Any suggestions Thank
    You again. Cosmo Palomba

  8. Cosmo-1037468 December 7, 2013

    Management ;
    I’m new at this. I would like to say I’m 73 years old. Is their a list or site with older women more my age in it. I live near Reno Nevada.Thank You. Cosmo.

  9. Esther-532964 December 7, 2013

    What a wonderful Catholic sucess love story! My name is Esther too. I hope that is a good sign.I mostly pray the rosary during lent. Your story gives me hope. I just have to keep praying and have faith. Thank you for posting your great story! Many blessing to the both of you! Esther

  10. Gladys-1032701 December 20, 2013

    That is a beautiful story. It just reminds be that all things are possible when you believe in our Savior Jesus Christ.

  11. Eric C. January 31, 2014

    i admire your story and faith on Jesus Christ. Many best wishes for both of you.

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