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What contributes most to you still being single?

Mar 28th 2013

  • There are so few good men/women to date. - 17.7%
  • I am or am becoming too picky. - 7.6%
  • God has not introduced me to him/her yet. - 46.4%
  • I don't approach meeting/dating people very well. - 10.4%
  • Not enough good places to meet people - 10.9%
  • I lack the self-esteem needed for a meeting someone - 7.0%

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August 24th, 2014 - Betsie-705621 said:

I almost always ask God for signs on the men I am seeing, if they are who God wants for me. Also, I do believe there are good men out there and I don't like the looking around so I don't want to appear desperate.

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August 15th, 2014 - Eric-941851 said:

I believe my whole problem is that I possess bad social skills even to the point where finding the self esteem to engage in the initial introduction.

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July 4th, 2014 - Elizabeth-1080450 said:

I've always dated the guys who lacked in morals. I thought that if my beliefs and morals were laid out on the table before we dated it would be okay. Errrrrrnt. That was a total wrong approach. I haven't dated a guy in almost three years bc I haven't met a guy where our personalities clicked and where we both challenge each other in our faith. Joining this website has opened my mind to a whole new world where I can meet men with my same morals.. Which is different and its super exciting!!

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June 30th, 2014 - Catherine-1085370 said:

I lack the self-esteem

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June 16th, 2014 - Christa-366799 said:

There are a lot of men out there who don't have good morals and values. Esp being catholic and practicing. I'm not asking for an angel! But today's day it's hard to meet a nice guy. Just not Gods timing, but his timing is best! :)

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June 16th, 2014 - Lee-1060250 said:

Our Lord through The Holy Spirit hasn't placed a lady in my life He feels is for me. I have to keep listing to His voice. I am positive it will tell me the one. I have faith and trust.

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June 5th, 2014 - David-1092070 said:

how about why I don't want to be single,and why I WANT TO CONNECT! here's a short story,,,there was a girl,she ask,a boy if she was pretty,,he said NO! she then asked him if he wanted to be with her,,he said NO!,,she then ask if he would cry if she walked away,,he said NO! she had heard enough she needed to leave,,as she walked away he grabbed her arm and told her to stay,he said you are not pretty,you are very beautiful,,and I don't just want to be with you, I want to be with you NOW and FOREVER! and I would not cry if you walked away I would die! most of us have seen the romantic comdey YOU'VE GOT MAIL! the happy ending the couple connecting staying connected,,sharing,,caring , trusting, with the joy of can't wait to see that special one,,and the pain when you don't,not to mention the worry if something happens to that special one,the saying if you are crying because your ideal match hurt you,,cheated on you,or just keeps letting you down,but if you cry because they are crying are hurting when they are,,well thats love and connecting and the laughing and happiness part must be great,,So thats love and not being single,,so if you want those or some of those words above,and feeling,,keep trying to connect and find that ideal match,and praying for it can't hurt!

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June 3rd, 2014 - David-1092070 said:

well I am not connecting with the ladies,that I could really go for,,it seems they won't give me achance,like on this site I am not hearing from the one's I am interested in,,ANYWAY I keep trying,,it does get harder as we get older,,,a funny thing on all most all these sites,,everyone seems to know what makes a great ideal relationship and what makes it last,,but there all still online looking and browseing,,playing the game,,me personally all you can do is keep trying,,marraige and true love is a blessing!

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Poll Demographics

There are so few good men/women to date. (443 votes)
Overall Response
17.4%
Men
19.8%
Women
15.7%
18-25 yr olds
20.6%
26-35 yr olds
18.3%
36-50 yr olds
17.2%
51+ yr olds
16.0%
I am or am becoming too picky. (205 votes)
Overall Response
8.0%
Men
11.4%
Women
5.7%
18-25 yr olds
7.7%
26-35 yr olds
8.0%
36-50 yr olds
9.7%
51+ yr olds
6.7%
God has not introduced me to him/her yet. (1156 votes)
Overall Response
45.4%
Men
35.6%
Women
52.2%
18-25 yr olds
44.8%
26-35 yr olds
39.0%
36-50 yr olds
45.2%
51+ yr olds
50.9%
I don't approach meeting/dating people very well. (281 votes)
Overall Response
11.0%
Men
14.7%
Women
8.4%
18-25 yr olds
9.8%
26-35 yr olds
14.3%
36-50 yr olds
10.8%
51+ yr olds
8.8%
Not enough good places to meet people (285 votes)
Overall Response
11.2%
Men
9.1%
Women
12.6%
18-25 yr olds
10.3%
26-35 yr olds
12.4%
36-50 yr olds
10.1%
51+ yr olds
11.3%
I lack the self-esteem needed for a meeting someone (179 votes)
Overall Response
7.0%
Men
9.4%
Women
5.3%
18-25 yr olds
6.7%
26-35 yr olds
7.9%
36-50 yr olds
7.0%
51+ yr olds
6.4%