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What contributes most to you still being single?

Mar 28th 2013

  • There are so few good men/women to date. - 17.7%
  • I am or am becoming too picky. - 7.6%
  • God has not introduced me to him/her yet. - 46.4%
  • I don't approach meeting/dating people very well. - 10.4%
  • Not enough good places to meet people - 10.9%
  • I lack the self-esteem needed for a meeting someone - 7.0%

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June 15th, 2015 - Nancy-345874 said:

Recovering from an abusive marriage, spent 'the last 10 years as sole caregiver for parents.

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June 8th, 2015 - Den-948168 said:

Finding a god mate. Plus I am very shy.

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June 6th, 2015 - Joey-1212130 said:

"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the game."

Here are three things you can do to move forward with the cards you have.

1. Fortune favours (no it's not a typo. I'm Canadian) the brave

You can say God has a plan for me. Alternatively, God has enabled you. You reading this is enablement. Now, move forward and make it happen. Life is what you make it.

2. Be a closer

Remember the time when you messed up and didn't say or do the right thing. Cooking takes practice. Academic takes practice. Being a closer takes practice too. Brush up on your elevator speech. Rehearse your closing lines and practice in front of the mirror. Remember - train like you fight and fight like you train.

3. Timing is everything

Remember, sometimes we are where we are due to timing. For example, when you're in a relationship, the other person is available. When you're available, the other person is in a relationship. When it rains, it pours.

Keep trying. Keep praying. Stay positive. Be awesome.

God bless you.

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May 26th, 2015 - Marie-1132363 said:

I needed time to heal after my divorce and annulment. Now I'm feeling God calling me to open my heart to dating. Now it is a matter of meeting a quality man. There aren't a lot of places to meet men around here.

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May 22nd, 2015 - Mario-1207898 said:

Women being soooo picky.

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May 7th, 2015 - Michael-1203204 said:

I'd say I'm the master of making bad first impressions. I'm a good singer but a horrible dater. I date about as well as Michael Jordan swung a bat. I think I need to meet someone who takes the time to really get to know me and not have a list of a hundred disqualifying minor details.

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May 5th, 2015 - Elynne-747744 said:

I'm a recent convert (five years), so God has been teaching me to walk strongly in Him first!

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May 3rd, 2015 - Brian-1170405 said:

1. Homeowner 2. 6 figures in the bank 3. New Cars 4. Unconditional Love all for Her!

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Poll Demographics

There are so few good men/women to date. (353 votes)
Overall Response
16.9%
Men
19.6%
Women
14.9%
18-25 yr olds
17.5%
26-35 yr olds
17.7%
36-50 yr olds
17.9%
51+ yr olds
15.3%
I am or am becoming too picky. (167 votes)
Overall Response
8.0%
Men
11.7%
Women
5.3%
18-25 yr olds
6.1%
26-35 yr olds
8.4%
36-50 yr olds
9.3%
51+ yr olds
6.9%
God has not introduced me to him/her yet. (945 votes)
Overall Response
45.2%
Men
34.2%
Women
53.2%
18-25 yr olds
50.0%
26-35 yr olds
38.5%
36-50 yr olds
43.6%
51+ yr olds
51.0%
I don't approach meeting/dating people very well. (243 votes)
Overall Response
11.6%
Men
15.8%
Women
8.6%
18-25 yr olds
11.4%
26-35 yr olds
14.4%
36-50 yr olds
12.4%
51+ yr olds
8.9%
Not enough good places to meet people (237 votes)
Overall Response
11.3%
Men
9.5%
Women
12.7%
18-25 yr olds
8.8%
26-35 yr olds
13.6%
36-50 yr olds
10.0%
51+ yr olds
11.1%
I lack the self-esteem needed for a meeting someone (145 votes)
Overall Response
6.9%
Men
9.1%
Women
5.4%
18-25 yr olds
6.1%
26-35 yr olds
7.4%
36-50 yr olds
6.8%
51+ yr olds
6.9%