April 16th, 2013 - Jacques-961161 said:
Faithfulness for me is the first and most important criteria for a lasting relationship. We have to get to know each other long enough for me to see, based on her behavior and her reflexes, that she is an honest person that will be faithful to any man she is emotionally involved with. Once we start meeting each other (ideally as simple friends) hopefully I will be able to see if she is a respectful lady and if there can be a bond between us that will make both of us feel for each other, look out for each other. Then and only then would I look at her physical appearance, and only if she is very obese would that be an obstacle. If she meets all those criteria and she is in my age bracket (between 40 and 53), then that's all I need, and I would pursue her. I think that I am very reasonable and many women meet all of those criteria hands down. Obviously, for all this to work, she must not have selection criteria that are so tough and so numerous that they eliminate 99.99% of the male population.
August 22nd, 2012 - Terry-889149 said:
Commitment to the sacrament of marriage. You have to go into the marriage giving everything you have to make sure your partner is loved unconditionally. To many people look for that one reason to call it quits rather than trying to fix it or notice the thousands of other reasons to keep it going. I think society in general puts to much pressure on a young couple. Financial is the worst. And with today's electronic communication network, it's easy to find a fix for whatever you may be missing in the relationship. But what I think mostly is a cause is lack of attention and the desire to be appreciated. That comes from watching all these crappy shows on tv that show nothing but ignorance and humiliation of anyone for a laugh. Don't be so demanding as well. Work it out and find a happy medium by sitting down and talking.
July 12th, 2012 - Amy-718758 said:
I am interested in how the man lives his life. How does he relates to his family of origin, children, friends and co-workers. Are our goals compatible. I have learned why my previous marriage failed, faced my part, and made some changes. I hope to find someone who has learned from their mistakes and continues to make personal improvements.
June 3rd, 2012 - Lisa-546599 said:
Children, money and lots of it, a paid home, a paid home for each child when they are of age, stability, IQ, compassion, Eucharistic Minister, Choir Minister, Lector Minister, Catachist helper, Social Justice, family values, American values, avoids mortal sins, speaks freely, no secrets, pro-life, affectionate, health values, Saturday cartoons til 12 p.m. and breakfast in our pajamas with the kids, dine out a few times a week, watch movies with the family during dinner, Disneyland a couple times a year, Las Vegas trip twice a year, fairness for everyone by the end of the night, hobbies.