September 30th, 2012 - Frederic-870910 said:
If you don't get a response,they may not be rude or ignoring you. It may simply be because they can't. They are just here as free members. Unfortunately too many profiles belong to these non-paid members (I'm one of those right now!). Too bad there's no way to tell. That's the frustrating part. It's the same problem on all the other paying sites as well.
One of the few matches in my area posted that she found someone on CM and was engaged. Their wedding date was scheduled for 2010! That's how old her profile was. At least it was nice that she went back edited her profile to let people know.
Christian Mingle is nice but the only Catholics there are ones that have fallen to Protestantism.
Ok Cupid is great because you can read people's answers to the many questions. And it's free.
Match may be the best bet because of the shear volume of people.
Don't care for eH or Chemistry. No matches. Like CM.
I like Our Time. People interact more. Maybe because we're all "old" and are running out of time. haha
July 1st, 2012 - Nwazi-837982 said:
I'm more comfortable on CM because right off the bat I know that at least I have faith in common with any potential match. It gives me s starting point for searches and discussions. I have tried It's just lunch in the past and each time was traumatised after the one date.
July 1st, 2012 - Susheel-758216 said:
Each one has their own drawbacks and their own positive points , comparing each other is like comparing mangoes , oranges and bananas with brinjal . It's the people that make the difference , that's what determines what is successful or not . I met few serious minded people on eh and match . When it comes to meeting both of them were good , the women there never wasted any time in endless emails or the devine sign . Few women that I communicated here are angry that I love my career , as according to them I should only love god and nothing else , not even my future children . So if the comparison is between members , I found more sensible women there , but in the matters of site administration cm has done good job .
June 6th, 2012 - Brian-278516 said:
@Mary I am sorry you have not had the results you were hoping for however I did take a quick look at your account and I think there are some things you can do to improve your opportunities. It looks as if you have had some responses, it is just a matter of getting the right response from the right person and that can sometimes take more time than we would like. I am going to have one of our Customer Service people reach out to you.
June 5th, 2012 - Mary-667135 said:
I reached out a number of times to people on CM, and never got a response, except for one person on a platonic level bc we knew the same organization. One person even BLOCKED me! A lot of people looked at me, but never wrote or anything. Waste of time and money.