A Dream Come True


“Being a member for a few months, I never discovered the forums, then one night I found the forums. What a blast. Chatting, meeting Catholics from all over the world. The different forums, emotes, even the prayer room. I loved it all!!” So said Dave, as he entered the community arena at Catholic Match, where you can meet large numbers of people online all at once. Patti was a regular participant in the forums, where she had varied interests, from showing support with other women in the St. Ann’s Room, to friendly banter in St. Peter’s Square to sharing her love for the Cubs, Packers and Texas Longhorns in the St. Christopher’s sports forum. It was in the Catholic Match forums that a man from Ohio and a woman from Texas were able to meet.

“I noticed a forum poster, where did this cutie come from, she was so full of zest and life, so we started chatting and leaving emotes, then it was good night hugs, and then good morning E-mails and emotes.”, Dave said. But the distance was a problem. Both were seeking someone locally, but neither were willing to put God in a box. “I was organizing CM Jazzfest” at the time, Patti recalled, speaking of a CM Destination Weekend that she was the lynchpin behind in Corpus Christi. So Dave came down for that.” But in the meantime there were six months in between their initial encounter and the event. So they kept the chatting, e-mails and forum communication going and let their friendship grow.

The event was everything they’d hoped for, both for themselves and for the rest of the people that attended. “I went a day early so I could take Patti out for an evening dinner date, Dave said. Holy Toledo!! I was in awe.” They had a terrific time, both at dinner, and then through four days and nights with other CM friends. The last night was hard on both of them. “Why did we have to be so many miles apart?, Dave lamented. I was a wreck, with my last hug and kiss goodnight, we had to say goodbye. I promised Patti I would be back. She looked so sad, we both cried. Goodbye to the love of my life.” But it wasn’t goodbye. It was hello.

Determined not to let the best person they’d ever met get away, Dave and Patti worked to move their relationship to the next level, traveling back and forth to spend time with each other. “It was about every 6 to 8 weeks, Patti said in reference to the frequency they saw each other. “The longest was 15 to 16 weeks. Dave did most of the traveling. He and his brother have their own business, so he had more flexibility.”

They continued the forums, e-mails and cellphone. And they prayed to be shown the way. Those prayers led to a powerful story. In Dave’s words…

“I live near Sorrowful Mother Shrine here in Ohio. When I first joined CM, I left a prayer note at this shrine, praying to find me a Catholic woman to be my wife. It was about a year later, and a few months after Patti’s CM Texas. Patti told me of a dream she had the night before, she tells me of Mary’s in the woods and on trees, and walking paths in a woods, she also had a vision of a grotto of the tomb of Jesus. She wondered what this dream was all about. Then it hit me, it has to be the Shrine I left my note at, it has everything she dreamed about. I then told her about my prayer note, and guess where I left the prayer note, at the grotto of the tomb of Jesus. On Patti’s first visit to Ohio, we visited this wonderful shrine, and she visited the place that her dream was about. Now for Patti. She told me she was praying for a sign for us to be together and for a possible move to Ohio to be with me. It was for Patti and me to see an Eagle. The very next trip, we seen that eagle, let’s say 4 different ones on that weekend stay. So we both had our prayers and they were telling us what we needed to do next.”

Now the ball was in Dave’s court gain. It was on a ranch in South Texas that he knelt down and proposed. “Then as we hugged and looked to the heavens, we both witnessed two falling stars flash in the sky above us, he remembered. “Could this be another sign? I like to believe so.”

All the work paid off when they were united in marriage at Our Lady Star of the Sea in Corpus Christi, on April 4, 2009. “You can’t hurry things along”, Patti said. It’s what the three P’s the Pinkies (the women of the St. Ann’s Room) talk about—Prayer, Persistence & Patience.” When asked if she had any advice for other CM member, the biggest thing Patti stressed was being willing to step outside their own preconceived ideas and parameters, especially in regards to a long-distance relationship.

Patti & Dave now reside in Ohio. They visit the Marian shrines. They see eagles on weekly basis. She hopes the Cubs can finally win the World Series. But most important was that she and Dave—quite literally—saw all their dreams come true.



  1. Martha-510294 April 28, 2010 Reply

    I liked your story, my cousin met her husband in this site too, now she lives in CT, too many mlles away from Mexico, but they are happy, like you. I hope my dreams come true and fnd my soulmate here at CM. God Bless you both.

  2. Veronica-56352 April 20, 2010 Reply

    Your story is very inspiring & gives us all hope! Please pray for all of us on CM, as we pray for you both! God bless! Trusting in Jesus, Veronica

  3. Jenny-569077 April 15, 2010 Reply

    God bless you both.

  4. Liza-523080 April 10, 2010 Reply

    Thanks for sharing, very insightful……Let go and let God…..

  5. MaryBeth-382377 April 9, 2010 Reply

    Very sweet. Thank you for sharing.

  6. Jolly-359478 April 8, 2010 Reply

    Wow! Beautiful story! God bless you both. 🙂

  7. Judy-566442 April 6, 2010 Reply

    Meant to be – Congrats & thanks for sharing your success!

  8. Inah-190079 April 4, 2010 Reply

    congrats and God bless you both!

  9. Margaret-532299 March 28, 2010 Reply

    God works in mysterious ways. April 4th is a special day for you. It is for me, too. My late husband and I would have been married 40 years on 4/4/10. May you both have the happines and love that we had for 36 years. God bless you both.

  10. Patricia-541226 March 27, 2010 Reply

    Happy upcoming Anniversary! May God bless you with many more!

  11. Nicole-554323 March 15, 2010 Reply

    wow thats ws so sweet,im happy for u both. wish u all the best and lots of babies and god guide u both dont stop ur feelings to each others..and good luck to both of you.god bless us

  12. Mark-207184 March 14, 2010 Reply

    : )

  13. Carlos-167015 March 14, 2010 Reply

    wow lucky guy. Cheers mate 😉 Have a blessed life you too!

  14. RoseMarie-41488 March 14, 2010 Reply

    God bless you two.. even today wnen I experience you guys daily on FB you are an inspiration to me….

  15. Diana-555010 March 12, 2010 Reply

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with everyone. Gives me hope that one day the lord will bless me with a wonderful husband like yours. May God be with you always.

  16. Grace-553338 March 10, 2010 Reply

    True!! You can not hurry God's plans. Congratulations to you Patti and Dave.

  17. Tiffany-66114 March 8, 2010 Reply

    Hooray Patti and Dave. So happy for you! Go Fish!

  18. Kathleen-311531 March 6, 2010 Reply

    Hi Dave and Patti! So nice to hear your success story! Many blessings for you both!

  19. Jessica-346259 March 5, 2010 Reply

    PATIENCE….Most definitely the key to a long distance relationship. Congratulations….your 1st anniversary is fast approaching. Many happy and wonderful years together.

  20. Heather-86875 March 3, 2010 Reply

    I never knew the full story but bits a pieces of it. Dave and I met at the CM Niagra Falls event and we were partners in crime. It was great to see him meet and marry this beautiful woman! It was also a privilege to witness their joining in marriage on that special day (as well as to sing for the wedding). God Bless you both!

  21. Michael-358497 March 3, 2010 Reply

    Geez, I was wondering how long I'd have to wait to read this! … Just kidding.
    It's been a pleasure meeting the two of you, and in the process the connections Dave and I have besides simply hailing from the same town.

  22. Bridgette-300059 March 2, 2010 Reply

    Wonderful wonderful story!! God bless you both!! =)

  23. Lynn-217278 March 1, 2010 Reply

    Absolutely beautiful and inspiring story!! Thank you Dave and Patti for sharing your success story. :o)

  24. Edward-4511 March 1, 2010 Reply

    I have been to the Sorrowful Mother Shrine several times. (it's just off the route I take between West Virginia and Detroit.) How wonderful that it was part of Patti and Dave's journey to marriage!

  25. Michelle-50109 March 1, 2010 Reply

    WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE…SO GLAD you came back to share the story–I didn't know all those little details!!! Like Megan, I am glad I got to be there–it was a wonderful weekend despite my mishaps!!! ;^) God Bless you both!!! HUGS!!!

  26. Megan-21150 March 1, 2010 Reply

    YAY! And I got to meet this wonderful couple…. hmmm, the three Ps huh? Wonder who came up with that one. 😉 God bless you two!

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