Choose Wisely: Why Do You Want The One You Want?


Do I want a certain person because she’s wonderful, or is she wonderful because I want her? Is that certain someone the sweet invention of a dream or is she really as wonderful as she seems?

As singles we have many things pressuring us to make a decision on The One. Family members want us married off. Friends, if they are in a relationship, want the same for us. Society, and even some aspects of the church, say you are normal if someone else is willing to be with you.

We don’t like to be lonely either. We have all these stressors that try to make us choose. But in the end, we must first be happy with the life that God has given us in our single lives and then see where His grace leads us in our journey of life.

Also, remember we are never alone, because Christ is always with us. Always remember not to live your life by the expectation of others, but by the one who created you.

Choose wisely.



  1. Marian-618386 September 30, 2010 Reply

    Yes, we can’t overlook what’s important to us. Being single is wonderful just as being married probably is. Finding a person you match with can be a challenge and take some time. Enjoy the process though…..

  2. Evelyn-575237 September 28, 2010 Reply

    I agree we must have faith that God is in total control of our lives. If we accept Him as our Master well then we have nothing at all to fear or to worry over. That should give us comfort.

  3. DionysiaDamayanti-497168 September 27, 2010 Reply

    One hundred percent I agree with this article. We have to be thankful to our GOD for choosing us to become HIS children. We read from the bible, seek first the Kingdom of GOD and all these things will be added to you. Therefore, do not be afraid. GOD will lead you to whom you will receive as your lifetime partner.

  4. Kathy-555815 September 26, 2010 Reply

    Thanks for the blog. You want the one you want because you have this fantasy about a person but in reality sometimes you find out the fantasy was wrong.

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