God’s Coincidences Brought Randy & Darlene Together


A series of fortunate events brought Randy and Darlene together

It’s been said that so-called “coincidence” is God’s way of keeping his anonymity. That proved to be the case with Randy and Darlene, a 60-something couple from Washington that saw seemingly unfortunate events turned to their advantage.

Randy joined CatholicMatch after his spouse of 40 years passed away and he was looking for companionship as much as anything. “I chatted with some wonderful women from all over the country”, he said, and he continues to keep in touch with some of them. Darlene was a widow who’d spent five months on CatholicMatch and while she’d enjoyed the company of a few gentlemen, there was no romantic spark.

Within a couple weeks of their online meeting, Darlene received bad news. Her position at a nearby university was eliminated and she was being forced into retirement. In retrospect, the fact she had to retire at the same time Randy was preparing to do the same is a big “coincidence.” At the time it left Darlene scrambling and rethinking what she wanted to do.

“I decided to give her all the time she needed,” Randy told CatholicMatch. “…if it was meant to be, she would indeed get back to me.” They didn’t correspond or chat for a month, but when Darlene reached out again, it just so happened that Randy was going to be driving through her hometown on a business trip. Another charming “coincidence” led to a get-together for coffee and they hit it off well.

Randy and Darlene took their dates to the outdoors and went rafting, boating and hiking in the Pacific Northwest. They talked candidly about what they wanted from the rest of their lives. The fact both had lost spouses had already forced them into stock-taking and Randy knew he wanted a spiritual and adventurous woman and Darlene proved to be all that and more.

“We became so comfortable with each other, that it was as if we had known each other much longer than just a few months,” Randy recalled. They began to talk about a life together and shortly thereafter he proposed. They brought their families together in a wedding that Randy vividly described—“A Mass, with our children and good friends with us, and a priest with a spirit that leaps from the altar, bubbles over, and brings true joy and meaning to the Holy Eucharist.”

Randy and Darlene are moving on with the rest of their lives. God supplied them with the opportunity to make things work, and this couple, not fearing the unknown and committed to living life to the fullest made it happen.



  1. Marian-1055781 July 16, 2014 Reply

    Great story about darlene and randy ~ marian

  2. Mary-486033 April 20, 2011 Reply

    God Bless you both! Darlene, you look beautiful!!!

  3. Marie-575233 April 19, 2011 Reply

    Love casteth out all fear. Thanks for the hope.

  4. Marybeth-366293 April 15, 2011 Reply

    Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful experience. God Bless you. Marybeth

  5. Jason-692850 April 14, 2011 Reply

    Great story!! I almost cried when I read it. God is awesome!! Praise the Lord for showing you two love again!!

  6. James-550333 April 11, 2011 Reply

    Congratulations to you both and a wonderful story. I am currently dating a women who I met a number a months ago on Catholic Match and we are both widowed also. I hope for a happy ending such as yours.

  7. Susan-100468 April 8, 2011 Reply

    God bless me to marry soon, because I would like to have children. May I be as happy in my later years as this couple: love endureth all things!

  8. Barb-505508 April 7, 2011 Reply

    Thank you Randy and Darlene for giving me hope. I’m dating Mr. Right currently and we’re both widowed with similar stories to yours. Oh, for such a happy ending as yours I’d reach to the stars and back.

    Congratulations and Best Wishes to You!!

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