What Are You Doing To Resurrect Your Dating Life?


CatholicMatch’s new ad plays on the Easter season in a light, bright way. But it also begs a serious question: What are you doing to revive a stalled dating life? How can you resurrect a dating life that seems all but dead?

For some singles joining CatholicMatch (or renewing a membership) is the answer. But what if you’re already on the site and things have just slowed? How do you kick it up a notch? How do you shake things up and break out of a rut? Because there’s no time like the present…

So let us hear your secrets and strategies.




  1. Emily-658630 May 27, 2011 Reply

    I guess by signing back up. Other than that…I don’t do much! LOL Oooopss!

  2. Kathleen-311531 May 21, 2011 Reply

    How to kick it up a notch? BAM! (Sorry that’s Emeril’s line!)
    Get a new picture, edit and update your profile, get some new scrapbook pics, send emotes or messages, get active in the FORUMS( some CMers don’t knwo they exist!), go to events….a multitude of ways to at least make yourself more available to others.

  3. Paulette-280667 May 20, 2011 Reply

    I sometimes think that there’s a lesson to be learned that will promote growth in the interior life and an over all growth as a person. If that lesson hasn’t been learned then we remain in our situation until we grow and are able to handle something bigger that the Lord has in store for us.

    • Ademola-726816 May 26, 2011 Reply

      I went to a Catholic Singles Conference and I was under the impression that I would be there to find a potential mate! The first speaker was Mary Beth Bonacci and boy did she clear up a lot of misconceptions!! I don’t know why I deemed this the year to find a good mate, but she said we should be centering our lives around God, seeking Him and growing our relationship with HIM and then the rest would come!! I agree with what has been said…trying to live as Christ taught us, centering our lives around God and signing up on Catholicmatch to meet good, quality Catholics who want and believe the same things!!!

  4. Anthony-705133 May 19, 2011 Reply

    I am going on sites like this to make an introduction. I think I’ve been given the gifts to live a good life. But if I keep them to myself, it’s not likely to be seen by any available women whose lifestyles are a good match. Yes, by living a liife that is fulfilling you, you are likely to meet like persons. And yet stepping out of my comfort zone, I can be enriched by the new experience shared with others. I know we are meant to go into the world to live, to interact, to make friends and to find love.

  5. MariaElena-485060 May 19, 2011 Reply

    I too agree with the ladies. It has taken me some time in realizing God does the things he does for a reason and all in due time. Sometimes its the hardest thing to do because we have no control over it, I know that drives me “crazy”. I let his will be done and in the meantime, I pray & keep an open mind.

  6. Christa-609893 May 18, 2011 Reply

    I’m a firm believer in Christ’s statement, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things will be given unto you.” Just being the best person I can be, true to our faith and to the teachings of Christ–and I trust that God will take care of us, just as He does the lillies of the valley. So I’m pouring myself into my own creative work, and letting God take care of the rest. I just continue to pray and consciously, each day, to surrender my will to the Lord’s. I trust that the Lord will lead me to where I need to be and where and to whom He needs me to serve.

    • Annmarie-99121 May 18, 2011 Reply

      I agree it all in gods timing to find my soul mate and life work.

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