Not Clicking on a Profile Could Mean Missing Out on Mr. Right


This past Easter Sunday, Larry and Susan were sitting outside his sister’s house in Arizona when he popped the question.

“He looked at me with tenderness—his face bathed in the moonlight—and said, ‘You don’t feel like a girlfriend…you feel like a wife.’” A little while later, he slipped a ring on Susan’s finger and asked her marry him.

Susan told CatholicMatch, “It feels like we are holding hands while jumping off a cliff… only the cliff is not a cliff at all but a step toward a new life together in Christ.” It’s a new life that may not have happened if Susan hadn’t overcome her hesitancy to click on Larry’s profile.

Three weeks after Susan, 55, had joined CatholicMatch, she received some possible matches. “I was hesitant to view their profiles because doing so alerts them that you viewed their profiles, and I was still testing the waters at this point.” While looking at the tiny profile photos, one of the members stood out to her because she noticed that he was wearing a hat, but she still didn’t bother to click on his profile.

A short time later, when she was reading the CatholicMatch Member Forums, she happened onto a post that grabbed her attention. She was attracted to how beautifully the member wrote about his faith and the workings of the Holy Spirit in his life.

Intrigued, she checked to see who he might be; she was surprised to see that familiar hat in the member photo. Susan discovered that this was the same hat-wearing member matched with her! She felt compelled to click on Larry’s profile and to send him a message about how she was drawn to his forum writing and his big family.

Larry & Susan-grand canyon“He was older [64-years-old] and lived far away, so I wasn’t really thinking that this could be ‘the one.’ I was hoping for friendship grounded in our faith in God and love of the Church,” she says. However, the couple realized that they had much in common and the relationship progressed quickly. They got to know each other better by talking daily on Skype.

God gave them many signs that He approved of the relationship, but Susan felt some trepidation about their fast-moving romance. She was afraid of getting hurt and of hurting Larry; plus, she had a teenage daughter to consider. Many years prior, she had been in a marriage that didn’t work out and was later annulled by the Church.

Larry seemed to be able to read Susan’s heart and was always gentle and understanding. He was never judgmental of past mistakes. “I always felt peaceful after talking to him, and I gradually began to fall in love with him.”

A month after they began communicating, the couple met in person. Larry drove 13 hours from Philadelphia to Northern Maine to meet Susan and her daughter. “When he opened the door to my house, his gentleness and smile hit me like a warm breeze. We hugged and our bodies fit; my heart melted.”

Larry, a graphic designer and fine artist, was married for 38 years until his wife died five years previously. Spending a week with Susan and her daughter, he quickly knew that Susan possessed the qualities that he wanted in a wife. “In her, I have found that mysterious combination of belonging, love, and adventure, which I have come to identity with the Holy Spirit’s leading in my life. Our shared desire to submit and surrender our lives and our wills to God’s Divine Will has revealed itself daily in our ability to surrender to each other. I find all this vastly attractive,” he says.

Larry and Susan are looking forward to toasting their nuptials on May 1st, 2015, the Feast of St. Joseph.



  1. Bill-1176855 May 26, 2015 Reply

    I’ve been divorced for a year now after being separated for 6 years and trying to find someone online is extremely hard because I don’t go out anymore and am 71 years old.

  2. Bill-1176855 May 26, 2015 Reply

    Great wonderful story I could only hope for something similar someday too

  3. Adrienne-113113 May 25, 2014 Reply

    Wow. This story gave me chills. What a beautiful love. All the best to you.

  4. Christine-987105 May 23, 2014 Reply

    Having known Susan for many years I know what a wonderful woman she is and she gives me great hope! Best wishes as you continue on your relationship journey….Larry must be an awesome man I can’t wait to meet him….

  5. MaryJane-619001 May 20, 2014 Reply

    A beautiful story. Love and Blessings to you both :).

  6. Martha-942242 May 17, 2014 Reply

    Just now reading this wonderful story, you see GOD can everything, I m very Happy for yours, God Bless you !

  7. Christopher-979263 May 17, 2014 Reply

    What a wonderful story! Congratulations to you both. May the Lord bless you all and your marriage.

  8. A great story,all of us must dream too.Everything is possible in God’s grace,in his time.Congratulations to Larry and Susan.God Bless.

  9. John-49562 May 15, 2014 Reply

    Congratulations, Larry and Susan. As has been said, very beautifully written story, and a great example of the Holy Spirit working through this site.

    God Bless.


  10. Kathy-730470 May 14, 2014 Reply

    A beautiful story and wonderfully written. I am very happy for you both. God bless 🙂

  11. Barb-487929 May 14, 2014 Reply

    Congratulations Larry & Susan!! So happy to see the faces of older individuals on who have met and married. I have said that one main item missing on the website search function is the age range of a potential match. There are many men who are looking for younger women to marry and to bear children and if you’re not of that age any longer you don’t know if you’re wasting your time with a individual. It should be an option.

    • Linda-442926 May 15, 2014 Reply

      Barb, age range is a part of the search function. I don’t know if it’s part of the matches that people receive from the site, but if you initiate your own member search you can set a minimum and maximum age.

  12. Lina-796057 May 14, 2014 Reply

    Congratulations, and may God continue to bless and deepen your love for each other.
    I, too, have met Larry…in fact, I got to see the ring and hear of the proposal plans about a week before Easter. I didn’t get to meet Susan before they left Arizona, but in knowing of Larry the little bit that I do, she must be a wonderful lady.

  13. John-34848 May 14, 2014 Reply

    Congratulations to the beaming couple. I had the pleasure of meeting Larry albeit briefly at CM Tucson in March 2014. May the love you feel for each other grow day by day.

  14. Andrew-1040810 May 14, 2014 Reply

    A wonderful story, indeed, gushing forth with the unconditional love of our Lord that brought together two hearts in the most unimaginable of long distance circumstances. Thanks, Lori, for a story written as beautifully as the beauty of the story itself and Thanks, Larry and Susan, for sharing a wonderful story that will illuminate a Godly path for the rest of us!!!

  15. Anne-702606 May 14, 2014 Reply

    Congratulations Larry and Susan! We pray all goes on well..God is in control.
    A wonderful story!

    God bless you.

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